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20 Influential Points for a Maximized YOU

On Being a Husband

1.  Love always serves. Make it a goal to do at least one helpful activity for your wife every day.

2.  Love is thankful. Saying "Thank you" to your wife every day will work miracles for your relationship.

3.  Love always gives. Your best gift to your wife is your willingness to listen to her.

4.  Love communicates. Your wife wants, and needs, your input.

5.  Love always respects. Being a husband does not mean being a disciplinarian. Your wife does not need to be reminded of, or corrected for, her mistakes.

6.  Love forgives. Do you love your wife? Love is willing to forgive and -- for the sake of unity -- move on.

7.  Love acknowledges. Your wife is your best friend.  Is this true? Yes, who else freely volunteered to live with you and all your weirdness?

8.  Women are mysterious. It is OK to admit you do not understand your wife. It will take a lifetime to discover just the surface of her being.

9.  Love honestly reflects. Are you using your wife as an excuse not to succeed? Doing so only causes bitterness. Are you bitter?

10. Love enables. Your wife wants to respect you. What reasons are you giving her to not respect you?

11. Love provides. Your wife wants you to take care of her. Are you? Remember, provision is more than material needs. Do you fully provide all her needs -- material, emotional, and sexual?

12. Love your children. Being gentle and caring with your children is a gift of love to your wife.

13. Love is gentle. Disagreement in a marriage is going to happen, but yelling in response is a choice.

14. Love yourself. Do not allow others to negatively talk about your spouse.  In doing so, they actually talk against you.

15. Love protects. Protect your wife from all those who would hurt her.

16. Love seeks balance. Your wife did not marry you to continually watch you leave. An absent husband is equivalent to no husband.

17. Love always leads. Be willing to seek forgiveness quickly for the sake of unity. Don't wait for your wife to say, "I'm sorry", but rather, be the first to say it.

18. Love cherishes. Tell your wife every day that she -- and she alone -- is meant for you.

19. Love is humble. Personal pride has no place in a marriage. It was sacrificed on the altar of marriage on your wedding day. Stop attempting to revive something that's dead.

20. Love is faithful. Be a man of integrity and keep your word. Marriage is a promise and you freely made it.

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